life goals

This is in response to theda, natch.

1. To the surprise of no one who knows me at all well, I must admit that finding (at least one) Ms. Right is way up there. I'm tired of being single, people. Even before I was single, I was lonely for a long time. And don't you dare tell me it isn't that bad if you've been all partnered up for a decade or more. Single women, even cisgender, in their forties agree: it sucks. We get more invisible by the day.
2. Getting my son on the way to taking care of himself. I'm pretty sure that'll happen regardless if I don't screw anything up seriously.
3. I have a zillion & one art or science projects in progress. I really want to bring them to a successful conclusion. Growing up m'boy and finishing the zappy - coming soon - will help.

W.r.t. my health and volunteering, I plan to keep doing what I'm doing, more or less. There are a few things, at least, that I've gotten right post-transition.