sistawendy: me looking stern in a blue velvet 1890s walking suit (lizzy)
I should have known I was in trouble when, after going to bed at 0230, I woke up not much later than 0630. I did my usual morning things like bike to the supermarket, which was open by the time I got there.

But even after drinking a pot of tea, I crashed hard at about 1230. I thereby missed the annual day rave at the Monkey Loft, which I'd already bought a ticket for, plus C's mellow "Ow My Head" party. Even if I'd managed not to sleep, I got paged for on-call duties something like six times yesterday, mostly in the afternoon. There were no major disasters, thank Goddess, but there was a steady trickle of chores that couldn't wait.

I'm now feeling that the universe owes me some groove and/or fun. Hey, at least my house is clean because I wanted it to be ready for Dancer on New Year's Eve. And I'm stocked up on groceries. And my iron skillet is re-seasoned. And I've actually caught up on sleep.
sistawendy: me in a Gorey vamp costume looking up (skeptic coy Gorey tilted down)
I went to the Blue Moon for some house music and got mid-20th century Christmas music & jazz instead. Yes, I like jazz and yes, Brit was running things, and yes, the local house heads started to show up shortly before I left around 2000. And why would I leave so early?

Because I got paged for work. I'm on call into the new year. I did manage to get home in half an hour, handle the stupid* situation, do stuff that I hope will make a recurrence less likely, and go to bed late.

Mayunn, I feel like I deserve a Christmas break at this point.

Oh: I stopped by Scarecrow Video for the first time in over fifteen years to rent "Sinners" on DVD. I now have an account there under my current name. What took me so long?



*Stupid because our service uses an vintage 2010 open source queueing system that sometimes makes jobs just disappear. Or get stuck. The fix has so far taken nine calendar months of one or two developers' efforts on average. The worst of it should get fixed early next month, and the whole thing should be done by spring. Le sigh.
sistawendy: me in a green velvet dress in front of a brick wall, laughing and looking up as I think, "WTF?" (wtf laughing)
On call has been kicking my butt the last couple of nights, and it's only partly my fault. Basically, we're dealing with the collateral damage from Google's recent change in tactics to thwart scrapers that feed LLMs ("AI scrapers").

So on less-than-ideal sleep, I went for shiny drinks last night. That's why I passed up an occasion to be the Devil Girl and wore my lowest key latex LBD when everyone else was dressed up. I had a major ulterior motive: meeting someone there from a dating site. She begged off due to a migraine, though.

Not to worry! I spotted Rubbermaid across the room, unexpectedly returned from Europe. I all but squeed. I told her to expect private communication from me about just the two of us getting together.

So yes, it was a night of synchronicity. Splendid!
sistawendy: me in a Gorey vamp costume with the back of my hand to my forehead (hand staple forehead)
Bummer #1: I woke up at 0310 and couldn't get back to sleep.

Bummer #2: I broke something at work, and I wasn't around to fix it because I was at the dentist.

Bummer #3: The Halloween party that I wanted to go to so badly has been cancelled due to the hosts' need to recover from COVID.

But! I have backup and other plans for this week, next week, and the week after that. So take that, bummers!
sistawendy: me in a Gorey vamp costume looking up (skeptic coy Gorey tilted down)
[I meant to post this yesterday. Sheesh.]

I slept from 2120 to 0510 last night — with interruptions from two on-call pages and my smoke alarm, which faraway wildfires set off. Hey, at least I don't feel zombic.

Speaking of on-call, I had plans to go to a munch or maybe circumflatulate, but I spent the evening at my desk. It's as if I'm paying for a couple of months of relatively easy on-call shifts. So I wish I had something to write about dating or (ahem) unusual tastes, but I don't.
sistawendy: me in my nun costume with my duster cross, looking hopeful (hopeful nun)
It keeps raining in the morning just heavily enough to keep me from riding my bike.

Two things are driving me meshuggah lately: the company that runs the world's favorite search engine, and the SSO that I have to use. The latter explains why I'm writing an entry in the early afternoon.

But! I have plans to see Tacoma Girl, Dancer, and the Tickler over the next couple of weekends. Happiness.

Circumflatulation continues. No, I won't elaborate.

Meh.

Mar. 27th, 2025 04:53 pm
sistawendy: me in profile in a Renaissance dress at a party (contemplative red)
All I've been doing lately is
  • trying to get enough sleep, with some success lately
  • discovering and cleaning up after co-workers' poor decisions from years ago
  • making plans for the next few weekends
My life feels as grey as the sky lately. I wish I had more to write here. Time for tofu.
sistawendy: me in a Gorey vamp costume with the back of my hand to my forehead (hand staple forehead)
Nightmares and anxiety dreams are messing with my sleep. On call is... never a dull moment. I'm so looking forward to tomorrow night with Dancer at the Catwalk reunion. And no, it won't be NC-17. Or at least if it is, I'll be surprised and delighted.

I made my first ever meatloaf on Tuesday, using the recipe from How To Cook Everything by Mark Bittman. It was pretty good, but I think my oven runs cool. That'll just give me an excuse to make it again until I get it right. The Wendling is OK with it, which is important.
sistawendy: me in the Mercury's alley with the wind catching my hair (smoldering windblown Merc alley)
Being on call for work ate me alive on Monday night and Tuesday. In related news, I've encountered a case where AWS more or less told the truth about a certain use of one of their APIs not really working, but at least one major third party didn't get the memo. Le sigh.

Updates to my retroactive New Year's resolutions: more kinky, less drinky. I've decided to join my son in the latter. Also, more creative circumflatulation. I haven't done much since... I can't even remember. And speaking of getting back on horses, I need to get back to shaking the tree. I just need to be smarter about it than I have been previously.

Making plans for San Francisco next week. Aw, yeah.
sistawendy: me in a green velvet dress in front of a brick wall, laughing and looking up as I think, "WTF?" (wtf laughing)
T and I took two buses each way for the long trip to Equinox Studios. Yes, it's the same place I went with Dancer last month, but this time there were food trucks and bands.

Why something special ("Very Open House") in December? I've just answered my own question: many of the artists were selling at least a few Christmas-themed goodies. I wasn't there for holiday shopping, though; I was mainly there to hang out with T.

Speaking of T, she seems to be doing pretty well with dating. That's because she's working the apps but, as I told her on the southbound 132, every time I think about going back to the apps I also think, 'Do I have to?' She agrees that maybe now is not the time for me to do that.

But! T & I had a good time. We battled the crowds through the twisty maze that is Equinox to explore as thoroughly as we could manage. There were several times when I wished I had budget to buy and space to display things I saw there; I did collect a couple of business cards. There were eats from food trucks. And I believe that was the Chaotic Noise marching band that we heard, and they don't suck. Neither did any of the other bands I heard.

The weather, however, did suck at times. It's Seattle in December; waddaya want? Luckily, I was ready with The Coat, which garnered all the compliments, and my beat-up umbrella.

I had wanted to go to the Mercury afterward to see some rarely-appearing old friends, but by the time we got back to my house on the bus and I finished with on-call nonsense, it was 2245. I stayed home with my FOMO.

But! Yes, Equinox! Highly recommended for a friend date or a date date.

I feel as if I've had an unusually virtuous weekend what with all the mass transit and not much alcohol. I hereby resolve to be a party nun for the rest of the month. And boy howdy, will there be opportunities for that:
  1. The latex gang is going out for drinks on both the 19th and the 26th.
  2. A date with Dancer on the 20th.
  3. I have a ticket to the mini-Cascadia festival right here in my neighborhood on the 21st.
  4. There's also a fetish event the 21st, but I had to skip it.
  5. B invited me to the Blue Moon on Christmas Eve. I may have to go just out of curiosity.
  6. The night of the 25th is always off the hook at the Mercury.
  7. I have... plans on the 28th. Ahem.
  8. The Wildrose's 40th anniversary is the 30th.
  9. The Tickler is coming up to go to the Keith Haring show with me on the 31st, followed by New Year's Eve at the Monkey Loft.
  10. The annual gathering on New Year's Day at chez C.
  11. The women's munch at the Wildrose is on the 2nd.
Madness!
sistawendy: a detail of a blue corset with violet lace overlay (blue corset)
I missed something when I looked at on call status for work this morning, so I got paged. I didn't handle it right the first time. (Foreshadowing!)

I did get a bike ride in, during which a panel truck turned right in front of me. I remember thinking, 'Their signal isn't on. Do they see me? Will they turn into that driveway?' The answers were no and yes, respectively. I swerved to avoid the truck toward a sidewalk and braked hard, and I ended up wiping out on the concrete, which was still wet from rain. My helmet did its job, my thigh is bruised, one knuckle on my left hand is sore, and my right hip joint is so sore I have to walk very gingerly.

Did I ever mention that the Devil Girl House is full of stairs?

The truck driver & passenger, plus another driver, made sure I was OK. I got my bike straightened out, and went on my not-so-merry way. It was probably pure adrenaline that got me home. I passed my son on the way and we talked briefly. I don't think either of us knew at the time how badly I got hurt.

On call continues to suck, and it's partly my own fault.

And I just found out that Rep. Sarah Mcbride, the newly elected trans Congresswoman from Delaware, essentially rolled over about the vile new bathroom bill that Republicans want to pass about federal facilities.
sistawendy: me in a green velvet dress in front of a brick wall, laughing and looking up as I think, "WTF?" (wtf laughing)
Yay: I didn't expect it, but Dancer wants a hot date on Saturday night. Oh, hell yes. And if I'm sore the next morning, it won't be from lifting heavy objects. Ahem.

Bah: Do you know what's worse than "Hurry up and wait"? "Wait, then hurry up." Come on, people.

Yay: Funny Lady and others in her extended circle are gathering for eetz tonight a half hour walk from my place. I'm so going.
sistawendy: me in profile in a Renaissance dress at a party (contemplative red)
Split-shift sleeping might be inconvenient, but it gets the job done.

I have to work today and maybe tomorrow: major database upgrades, which is why I got up at 0600 on a Saturday. Speaking of inconvenient, we needed a maintenance window that would bother customers as little as possible, and the weekend was it. We've spent weeks getting ready. I'm hoping all goes smoothly and that we don't have to use the whole weekend that we blocked off.

Halloween party prep proceeds apace. At the rate I'm acquiring stuff, I pretty much have to throw a party now to justify it. I've crossed the point of no return.

Yes, I have social plans tonight. I don't say no to Funny Lady if I can help it.
sistawendy: me in the Mercury's alley with the wind catching my hair (smoldering windblown Merc alley)
I dodged a layoff bullet yesterday. Go me? No, I put it down mainly to luck. Between that at the never-ending Situation I've felt better.

Good things lately:
  1. Dancer is coming to take me out for dinner and grocery shopping in a few minutes, hence the brevity of this entry.
  2. Le Coin with the Tickler & Funny Lady on Sunday, after much planning and one postponement.
  3. Circumflatulation is going well.
sistawendy: me in a Gorey vamp costume with the back of my hand to my forehead (hand staple forehead)
You may recall that I'm going to Germany later this month. That meant I needed to swap an on-call shift for work, and update the service that alerts the on-call people so it knew to alert me. But instead of tediously overriding the existing schedule for fourteen individual days, I overrode it for one long, two-week block.

Some of you may know where this is going: not breaking it up into individual days told the paging service that it was OK to page me in the middle of the night, which on my team isn't the case. I got paged at 2315, 0015, 0115, 0215, 0315, and 0415 overnight for an issue for which I'd already done everything I could.

I was a couple of hours late getting up this morning.

I'm going to be so ready to go to Germany by the time it rolls around.
sistawendy: me in the Mercury's alley with the wind catching my hair (smoldering windblown Merc alley)
  1. Dinner last night with my pal [personal profile] cupcake_goth in Tacoma! Flails of glee! All the chats! Bang! One bummer, though, is that Pierce County Transit seems to have nuked the bus route that would take me right to her neighborhood from the Tacoma dome. I did have a Lyft ride featuring music in Arabic, though, so it wasn't a total loss. Oh, and for the first time ever I rode the Sounder commuter train from Seattle to Tacoma. It's the only way to go. $5.25 during rush hour and no freeway slowdowns.
  2. I finished my on-call nightmare a couple of hours ago. I'm hoping it doesn't return, well, ever.
  3. SEAF tonight with the Tickler! Time to start prettifying.

Meh.

Mar. 21st, 2024 08:07 pm
sistawendy: me in my nun costume looking stern (stern nun)
Work's been a little chaotic these last few days, which is ironic considering that I just got off call.

I've been doing a lot of grocery shopping with its attendant walks uphill, going to bed early, and not a lot of snacking. I'm looking forward to a weekend of traveller's tales from Tacoma Girl, brunch on Saturday with Dancer, and going to a birthday party for an adorably petite goth. (Yeah, some of you know who she is.)

I'm feeling a social jones.

Oh: Ex gave me her late mother's iPad. I've got it set up, partly. I should make a point of doing things she didn't approve of with it as a sort of electronic exorcism.
sistawendy: a head shot of me smiling, taken in front of Canlis for a 2021 KUOW article (Default)
My boss was precipitously let go two days ago. I could tell early on that his reports thought better of him than his peers or higher ups, so I'm sad but not surprised. Luckily, we've got someone very knowledgeable and competent stepping in, at least temporarily. Work has otherwise been meh: dealing with the quirks of a creaky old system gets in the way of the more exciting work of replacement, i.e. business as usual.

But! Happy things abound:
  1. The Mighty Orb has returned.
  2. Tacoma Girl is back from Spain, and she's going to tell me tales while I serve the sake that I picked up from...
  3. ...Uwajimaya last night. My excuse for going there: I needed spicy beans for ma po tofu. And I note that they have both Huy Fong Sriracha and its new competitor, made by their erstwhile pepper growers. (There was a civil suit that Huy Fong lost.) For the same unit price, Huy Fong's bottle is bigger. Based on that and my knowledge that Huy Fong Sriracha cures the common cold, I stuck with what I know.
  4. Thence to ladies' night at Greenwood Hardware. I got rosé and popcorn as I picked up food waste bags and a new duster, 20% off. I've never seen so many women, or a higher percentage of women, in a hardware store in my life.
  5. I got to see the sunset from Phinney Ridge, which hadn't happened since I moved away.
  6. The Tickler arrives later today, and I'm nearly ready.
  7. I get to see [personal profile] gement this afternoon! Will wonders never cease?
sistawendy: me in my nun costume with my duster cross, looking hopeful (hopeful nun)
Bad:
  • time change
  • on call
  • people I actually want to hear from texting me right after I go to bed on the day after the time change


Good:
  • scheduled physical therapy for my shoulder
  • handled on call and other work without mayhem
  • Dancer
  • the Tickler
sistawendy: me in profile in a Renaissance dress at a party (contemplative red)
MyCo's Seattle office is a casualty of both acquisition and COVID. That didn't stop them, however, for inviting employees in the Seattle area to a pretty decent dinner at Ben Paris. I wore the Sydney outfit, natch.

Ten people RSVP'd yes. Six actually showed — damn Seattle — and of those five were pre-pandemic hires, including me. Le sigh. Yeah, more frequent gatherings would be nice, but they can't replace actually working in the same place for getting people to know each other, know what's going on, and fostering a company culture.

Took the train to the north end with our Jersey-boy IT guy. A stranger asked me if I was wearing Fluevogs. I was: the Deliverance Lu with the scalloped heels and pointy toes. So I got to explain the cult of 'Vogs to the IT guy. And he tried to explain why he loves football to me.

I dunno. Do I miss the office? I'm completely not sure anymore.

Tonight, [profile] ack_yearight. Tomorrow, a play date (?) with the Train Platform Lady. Monday, the Womanhandler. Tuesday, a first date off an app with someone who seems... a bit woo, but hey, that describes a lot of my friends. Besides, hi, welcome to the queer women's community. But the point of this paragraph, though, was that it's an awful lot of social to pack into the next seven days. Can I handle it? I do believe so.

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