Nun shakes tree, but only leaves fall out.

Had a decidedly meh first date off of OKCupid. Lesbian, former nurse, current massage therapist (How do I know so many of them?). She's OK - we even have some mutual acquaintances whom I haven't seen in years - but I Just Wasn't Feeling It the way I was with, say, Funny Lady, and I think it was mutual. Back to the drawing board?

There is a certain fellow Fluevog enthusiast that I met at FL's birthday party. The problem, as so often, is that I don't know if she's into women. I hatey hate hate asking, especially over the intertubes.