sistawendy: me at a house party cradling a taco like a baby (taco madonna)
But first: My company has a tradition whereby everybody dresses up the day before Thanksgiving. Since this year has destroyed the last of my fucks, I wore one of my favorite cold weather club outfits to work: long, silvery grey skirt; violet corset; black velvet top with dolmen sleeves.

The real action, though, was yesterday. For the first time ever, I hosted a Thanksgiving dinner. It was also the first time I roasted a turkey, and unfortunately you could tell: I remembered to add water, but I forgot to baste it even though I'd carefully placed the butter next to the stove for that purpose1. Those breasts were pretty dry, but everyone said the legs were a-OK. Also by me: fresh cranberry sauce - so easy, so tasty - and fancy kale & farro salad using a PCC's Methow Valley recipe2.

It's a good thing there were only six of us, and not seven as had looked possible at one point. I only have half a dozen each of dinner & luncheon plates. I don't have enough chairs, but I managed to bum one off Ex in advance3. My lake place is a one-bedroom apartment of under 600 square feet, so it was, as real estate agents say, cosy. Nevertheless, I had a fabulous time, and I think everyone else did too.

Do I still miss the bigger Goth Thanksgivings of yore? Wayell, yes, but that isn't to say that last night's guests aren't lovely people. If my living space were about double its actual size I could maybe fit the whole gang in here. Sadly, that is not to be for now.

Oh yeah: ravey playlist because hey, it's me. If this event recurs I should call it the Graver Spinoff Thanksgiving.

Speaking of ravey, I prodded Funny Lady into doing her usual post-Thanksgiving dancing at Neighbours, the skeeviest gay bar in Seattle. Turnout wasn't great - last minute, election funk, foul weather, whatever - and there were no hot queer makeouts this time, but seeing Funny Lady is always a joy. And I did get to meet a couple of new (to me) queer ladies. For perhaps the first time ever, the music at Neighbours wasn't lowest common denominator; it actually didn't suck. All of us were amazed!



1I made sure to get sufficient quality & quantity of wine. That may have had something to do with it.
2I did not succeed brilliantly in getting Goths to eat their vegetables. Harrumph. More fabulous salad for me, thank you very much, plus a ton of chopped greens to put in a scramble or something.
3She & m'boy are in California right now with her family. I'm a little disappointed that I didn't get to introduce him to my friends and teach him how to make cranberry sauce.

Date: 2016-11-25 07:30 pm (UTC)From: [personal profile] ivy
ivy: Two strands of ivy against a red wall (Default)
What did you do for the cranberry sauce? (I love cranberries.) Glad your dinner was convivial!

Date: 2016-11-25 11:49 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] sistawendy.livejournal.com
Super simple: a day ahead of time, combine 4 cups of fresh cranberries, 1 ½ cups of sugar, 2 cups of water, and cook over medium heat until the berries burst. Refrigerate so it thickens a little.

Date: 2016-11-25 10:39 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] randomdreams.livejournal.com
I'm glad it went smoothly, and wish I'd been able to attend. I would have helped with the cranberries and mashed potatoes, for sure.
Goth vegetarians isn't really a thing?

Date: 2016-11-25 11:45 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] sistawendy.livejournal.com
Um, there are a few I guess, but not in my particular circles. Now that you mention in, vegetarianism may be less common among Goths than among Seattleites generally. Something about hedonism.

Date: 2016-11-26 02:42 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] m-cobweb.livejournal.com
Kale makes me cough. :-(

True about goths and vegetarianism, which surprised me when we moved here. I don't eat red meat, and there have been a lot of gatherings where I couldn't get a full meal.

Date: 2016-11-26 03:10 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] randomdreams.livejournal.com
Huh. It's just something I'd never considered.

Date: 2016-11-26 06:33 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] bork.livejournal.com
I did have three servings of those wonderful green beans!

Date: 2016-11-26 03:59 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] parityanimal.livejournal.com
Sounds like you did really well for a first time turkey roaster. Dry breasts? Well, that's what gravy is for, among other things. :)

Sounds like a great time was had by all. And of course enough wine will fix anything...LOL!

Date: 2016-11-26 04:33 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] sistawendy.livejournal.com
Uh, well, guess who completely spaced making gravy? As I explained to my guests, I hated my mom's gravy so I got into the habit of not eating it. Making it simply didn't occur to me.

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