sistawendy: me looking confident in a black '50s retro dress (mad woman)
I finally made it to the Georgetown Steam Plant. It's a place where the high tech of a hundred years ago – turbines, reinforced concrete construction, coal-fired boilers – died and went to heaven.

It took me over ninety minutes to get there on mass transit, partly because I was foolish enough to assume that it was on Airport Way, the main commercial drag with all the other old industrial buildings. Nope: it abuts Boeing Field, the general aviation airport. Its access was weird, and got made weirder by 9/11.

But once inside, I got to see the turbine room with its — wait for it — turbines, and condenser towers. There's also an ash room and a boiler room.

If you'll recall, I had an ulterior motive for going there, namely scouting it out as a possible venue for my 60th birthday party. It'll do nicely: there are three main rooms that are big enough, but only two on the ground floor. They have plenty of plastic chairs, a Mackie sound system, and a mixing board.

I got to talk to the dude in charge of renting it out. He was the one who'd emailed me earlier saying to call back in three years. I thought he said that because he reasonably didn't want to deal with things that far in advance, but he has another reason. The non-profit that runs the GST has ambitious plans to mitigate its seismic hazards (!) and to make it more accessible. I'm hardly an expert on the former, but the latter sorely needs work because of the numerous steep stairs. Oh, and since my birthday is in the winter, dude told me a couple of things I'd already guessed: there'd be less competition for the date I want, but it would be cold inside. No worries; I have The Coat, nice boots, and gloves.

I thought of [personal profile] gfish, who's a retro tech enthusiast like nobody else I know. He of course had been there, twenty years ago, and was allowed to venture into the places that are now off limits to visitors. He's welcome to them; it's a scary-looking place, having been built decades before OSHA.

I went back to Airport Way, had a beer at Georgetown Liquor – the successor to the late, lamented Highline. The vibe is still punk, but I didn't get to try the food (Foreshadowing!) and it doesn't look as if they have room for live music. I saw some art in a gallery called Fogue. And then I went to the book fair at Fantagraphics to see K the comic artist. Dancer was on her way to meet me for comic books and dinner. And then I got paged by work.

So yeah, I've just spent the last half hour "dealing" with an issue that resolved itself automatically and doing little chores that could have waited for tomorrow. I'm trying to salvage dinner with Dancer, who brought me home, for which I'm deeply grateful.
sistawendy: me in profile in a Renaissance dress at a party (contemplative red)
Dancer came over for dinner last night, bearing delicious Singaporean soup leftovers that I reheated on my stove. I provided the nice, red wine.

She had a hard week taking care of close family* who just had major surgery. That's to cap the hard decade or so that she's had, much of which is traceable to health issues.

I think she really needed someone to talk to; she'd expressed a desire for a non-play date. And yeah, of course I like that kind of thing too. Have I mentioned how much I miss having someone to talk to?

As for her sadness, though, can I deal? I think we're going to find out. One thing I can't do is make it go away any time soon.

I had grand plans to go on a tour of the Georgetown Steam Plant this afternoon, but missing a bus in vile weather on a tight schedule convinced me to go home and take a nap. I'm positive I made the right decision.

I did, however, get the frames of my glasses adjusted so that they don't slide down my nose. I've had them for over five years and the shop that sold them to me is a block from my house. That's what I call eventually getting around to something.



*Her parents died when she was young, so her aunt & uncle loom large in her life.
sistawendy: me in a green velvet dress in front of a brick wall, laughing and looking up as I think, "WTF?" (wtf laughing)
I got an email this morning from the non-profit that runs the Georgetown Steam Plant. They're renting out the space for events, art happenings, etc. A few hours later, I had an idea: it might be a good venue for my sixtieth birthday party.

The rub? My sixtieth birthday is in not quite four years. Nevertheless, I've sent them an inquiry.

Downsides:
  1. It's still full of old machinery, so the open spaces aren't that big, and they're scattered.
  2. How much could they possibly heat that big old building? That's a concern during my birthday month.
Upsides:
  1. So. Much. Space. To decorate! And put multiple kinds of sound in! And eetz & drinks! And peeps!
  2. The esthetics. I mean, how could I not?
  3. If people want to get away from loud music, that's easy.
I'm not sure whether this idea is very good or very bad, but it's definitely worth investigating.

And all of you who missed my 50th? Are hereby enjoined to come to by 60th.
sistawendy: me at a house party cradling a taco like a baby (taco madonna)
My birthday is more than two months from today, but it's a Saturday next year. What's even better is that I have an Amtrak voucher that I need to use by May. I'm pondering a trip to Portland, and it occurs to me that I have several friends in the area who I can poke about meeting up. Happiness!
sistawendy: me in a Gorey vamp costume with the back of my hand to my forehead (hand staple forehead)
Birthday pizza, beers, and gelato courtesy of my son was lovely, but on the way home down the steepest part of the ridge I didn’t pay attention to Seattle’s ubiquitous green slime - beers, plural - and wiped out. I twisted my ankle, and I felt it swelling as I limped the five blocks home. So now it’s ice, ibuprofen, and elevation. I’m lucky the Wendling is here to help out.

Oh, and the AirBnB I reserved in London? Cancelled & refunded. Shenanigans? As a trans woman I have to wonder.

On to the good stuff: Yesterday was also the tenth anniversary of getting my first hormone prescription. It’s hard for me to describe how profound my joy & relief were as I sat staring at the slip in my hand at the pharmacy. I’d waited twenty-five years for that moment.

I continue to look forward to shot night every two weeks, and I’m pretty sure my boobs are still growing. Sometimes happiness comes in a vial.
sistawendy: Me at the start of my 50th birthday party at Mokedo. Photo & makeup credit: Codee Bradley. (50th birthday)
I think I finally, finally, finally after over two years have pain-free toes. I need to learn to stop anticipating the sensation of being jabbed in the left pinky toe with a needle. Dare I think it's a sign of things to come?

Speaking of things to come, I've got my packing list for Sydney ready to go, with items I need to buy highlighted in green. Because anal.

And speaking of things to come sooner, I'm going to the Merc in my birthday outfit tomorrow night, and I thought I'd let you know. Yes, of course I have to wear it, a lot, to get my money's worth out of it, but why tomorrow night? Because former )'( campmates T, J & K will be there. It should be an excellent time. If you're in town and you missed my party, to the Merc with you! It's a non-smoking night, even.
sistawendy: Me at the start of my 50th birthday party at Mokedo. Photo & makeup credit: Codee Bradley. (50th birthday)
Because you didn't ask for it, here's my birthday party playlist, in order:

Title Artist
Dark And Long (Dark Train) Underworld
Panic The Smiths
Halcyon + On + On Orbital
This Corrosion The Sisters of Mercy
Far Away Cut Copy
Everyday Is Halloween Ministry
Lose Yourself To Dance Daft Punk
Nemesis Shriekback
Smashing the Opponent (feat. Jonathan Davis) Infected Mushroom
Bizarre Love Triangle [Shep Pettibone Remix] New Order
Night and Day Hot Chip
Send Me an Angel Real Life
God Is God Juno Reactor
I'm Your Brother Round One
Press Enter To Exit The Horrors
1999 Prince
Military Fashion Show And One
Dawn// Night Zeigeist
Shut Me Up Mindless Self Indulgence
Cowgirl Underworld
Enjoy the Silence Depeche Mode
Harvest Moon Poolside
This World Clan Of Xymox
Listen (John Digweed mix, Nunly edit) Raff 'n' Freddy
Stigmata Ministry
Bits & Pieces Junior Boys
Not In Love ft. Robert Smith Crystal Castles
Genius Of Love (Album Version) Tom Tom Club
Dominion / Mother Russia The Sisters of Mercy
Into the Trees (Serenetti, Pt. 3) Trentemøller
Behind The Wheel Depeche Mode
Deeper Rabbit In the Moon
Cities In Dust Siouxsie And The Banshees
We Are Explorers Cut Copy
Headhunter V3.0 Front 242
Tour De France Kraftwerk
Dead Stars (version) Covenant
Aura Bicep
Kingdom VNV Nation
Super Freak Rick James
Sex, Money, Freaks Cabaret Voltaire
Me Myself And I De La Soul
Megalomaniac KMFDM
End Of Line Daft Punk
Last Train To Lhasa Banco De Gaia
Out At The Pictures Hot Chip
Twisting They Might Be Giants
Victim of Love Erasure
Nazi Punks Fuck Off Dead Kennedys
Electric Barbarella Duran Duran
Never Say Never Basement Jaxx
Ooh La La Goldfrapp
Mucho Más Panoptica Orchestra
Dragula (Hotrod Herman remix) Rob Zombie
The Robots (Remix) Kraftwerk
Donut (Interpretation) Booka Shade
Happy Up Here (Datasette Remix) Röyksopp
Star Guitar The Chemical Brothers
Welcome To Paradise Front 242
Let's Dance Rabbit In the Moon
Comme un enfant Yelle
Extreme Ways Moby
Unicorn Basement Jaxx
flicking your switch Ladytron
I got this down Simian Mobile Disco
Killer Kat (Bonus Track) Trentemøller
Follow It Up Project Pablo
Mi linda Los Amigos Invisibles
Slide In Goldfrapp
Work The 2 Bears
Breathe In Sky Cries Mary
Dancing Queen ABBA


Exported directly from Traktor, no less! It gets ravier, less Goth, and more smartassed towards the end.

Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to guess which songs I added to my library specifically for this party to appease the Elder Goths.
sistawendy: a head shot of me smiling, taken in front of Canlis for a 2021 KUOW article (Default)
Slept fourteen hours in three chunks on Sunday and Monday. It may have just barely been enough.

Getting back into the groove at work has been... challenging. Mental note: become independently wealthy.

I just ate the last of the sushi. Don't worry; it was the pieces that were cooked when I picked them up. There are fewer than ten of the almond paste digits left for my cow orkers. I nommed at least seven of them yesterday, including all the remaining chocolate ones. They're crack, I tell you.

I thought m'boy was coming for dinner last night, so I got dinner fixings yesterday morning. Of course I left them in the basement, including meat. Need you ask? The good (?) news is that he isn't coming until tomorrow because of a visit by Exmom. So I'm out the price of some ground turkey, but at least I didn't disappoint my son.

Serious mental note: Meet with Arm Wrestler and relieve her of at least some of the booze that she has graciously stored for me.

party pics

Jan. 21st, 2018 12:31 pm
sistawendy: me in my suffraget costume raising a finger in front of the Vogue (oh yeah)
I'm the world's worst photographer because I always forget to take pictures, but at least I got a couple of them:

Nun turns 50.

Necklace by Artwith Latex. Leather corset by Dark Garden. Skirt by Gallery Serpentine. Boots by Fluevog.

my 50th birthday: wyvern on the left, nun on the right

The lady on the left is the amazing and lovely [profile] rigel_p. The one on the right is some random geezer chick.
sistawendy: a cartoon of me in club clothes (dolly)
After I did my taxes yesterday and blew off the Women's March, I got my legs waxed, loaded up the Mint Machine, and headed for Uwajimaya to get some dinner with m'boy and pick up the sushi. M'boy was late and incommunicado, so I was worried that he would flake. My fears proved groundless when he showed up and told me he was delayed by an Ethiopian "cultural parade". (?!) It was the first time he'd noticed the gauzy, white traditional clothing that a lot of (older?) Ethiopian women wear.

Got to the venue, and my son proved indispensable in getting everything loaded in and decorated. I consider that his birthday present to me. (He was unfamiliar with the trick of making a loop of adhesive tape until last night. This sort of thing happens all the time with him.)

I got my makeup done by Codee Bradley, introduced to me by fashionista J of J&R fame, for about 90 minutes. I kind of wish I had video of her working on me. It was fascinating, and the results were right on.

Poor Arm Wrestler had a punctured tire on the way to pick up the boozes and come do the bar, so she was a little behind schedule, but she ran a fine-looking, full-service establishment once she got set up.

People showed, about thirty or forty; that's not as many as I would have liked, but about as many as I could reasonably expect. People looked fabulous! People talked a lot, danced a little, asked if they could engage in kinky stuff (I hadn't cleared that with Mokedo management*, so with regret I said no), and partook of sushi and my almond paste digits. No, not fingers, as many people asked, but fives and zeroes.

I'm proud of myself for not getting smashed at my own party. But in truth, it was easy not to because I was having way too much fun being social, even if Arm Wrestler's drinks were delicious. I said it then, and I'll say it now: I wish I could have talked to everyone at the same time all night long, but that was the closest I could come.

You know how I was worried that my fabulous Fluevog Atrias would cripple me? I need not have worried. I had them on my feet for five seven hours, and I was standing for at least three of those. Fluevog heels are totally worth the money. Fun fact: I found out about them from Diminutive, who wore her pair to the party deliberately, guessing correctly that I would too. But she can get away with that because both she and the boots are gorgeous.

Yerba mate soft drinks really do the trick. I may not have finished unloading my car yet, but I sure did load out in reasonable time.

Until a few minutes ago, my fridge was packed with about half of the sushi I bought. I packed the pre-cooked nigiri, sacrilegiously cooked all the raw fish I could, kept the cukes and wasabi, and tossed most of the rice & nori. I've got a manageable four meals in there now.

I still need to go over to the Siberian Siren & Arm Wrestler's place & divvy up the leftover booze, but I'm not sure that's happening today. I'm not sure anything is happening today.

Metaphorical moment: As decorations I had the numeral 50 in electroluminescent wire wrapped around armature wire, half hanging from the ceiling and half free standing. I damaged one of the driver packs (probably by stepping on it; I should have listened to my son during my frantic unloading and put it somewhere out of the way) so that one of the blinky 50s was actually a blinky zero with a dark five next to it. I said that was meant to remind us that every day is a new day. "Every day is day zero!"

PS: Thing that got the most comments: my necklace from Artwith Latex that I bought from [personal profile] cupcake_goth at her most recent sale, and of course Mokedo itself. Everyone could understand what I saw in the place.



*Dude. I had a goddamn open bar. No way am I letting people hurt each other at a party where I'm providing free booze. That's not bad idea theater; it's bad idea Broadway.
sistawendy: me in my nun costume looking stern (stern nun)
I spent last night at Lambert House doing the second half of the annual statistical report for local government funding agencies. As usual, the director spent about an hour extra telling me about the wormy underbelly of running a small non-profit. Last night was the tale of how he cleaned up the board of directors within weeks of being hired. Believe it or not, it was fascinating. Thrills! Chills! White-collar crime!

The drier in the basement of my building has been broken all week, so if it's broken when I go home tonight, I will take Ex up on her gracious offer of laundry facilities. She lives at the other end of town, but my son seems pretty psyched about the prospect of dinner with me. How could I say no to that?

Meanwhile, back at the birthday ranch, I was hoping I could finish the desserts tonight, but that looks unlikely considering the paragraph above. If this is the worst thing that happens to my party prep, though, I'll consider myself lucky. Lesson learned today: don't print out the guest list for your door person until the last minute. The RSVPs are still trickling in.
sistawendy: me in my nun costume looking stern (stern nun)
Tire: fixed. I have some important driving to do on Saturday. The tire dude commented on my "Save a tree / Eat a beaver" bumper sticker.

STIs: tested for. It's almost the time of year when people want to know about that stuff, and it's good to have up-to-date information. I wouldn't want to go to Sydney without it. For better or worse, my risk has been pretty low lately.

Sweet edibles: 60% finished. They're surprisingly labor intensive. And no, I'm not posting any spoilers.

Boots: worn while doing the above. I figured I need to break them in a little before standing in them for four to six hours. They're a bit snug, and my (still) not-quite-healed left little toenail complains bitterly. Le sigh. Beauty is pain.

Kid: talked to. He's going to help me set up the pah-tay, even if he isn't interested in hanging out with a bunch of people my age. Imagine that.
sistawendy: me looking confident in a black '50s retro dress (mad woman)
Birthday: Estimated attendance and more cash sent to Arm Wrestler, my oh-so-capable bartender. Shellac manicure that matches the binding on my corset obtained.

Lambert House: I received an honorarium (!) for all the stuff I do for them. As I promised the director I'm using part of it to finally get another latex LBD from The Stockroom to replace the one I destroyed through improper storage before I moved out on my own. The rest of it, I've realized, I need to earmark for dues for Camp Beaverton.

I thought I was going to go stag to another Psy Ops show last night at Substation, but to my joyous surprise the Tickler told me she was coming, too. I spent an hour or so telling her what I told you about the Florida trip a couple of entries ago, and she was a great comfort to me. Much ♥ for the Viking queen who attacks my castle. And yes, solid groove, some eye candy (Suck it, Good Sister), and some excellent art for sale on the walls.

The Tickler and I came down with the "drunchies" as she called them, so we went on a quest for late night eats in the north end. Slim pickings: the nearest we could find open after 0200 was a pair of Middle Eastern joints on the Ave near 45th. We went to one that the Tickler had tried before, Aladdin, and it was way tasty. And oh by the way the joint was jumping when we left.

In other words, the universe seems to be making up to me for last week. That was exactly what I needed.
sistawendy: a detail of a blue corset with violet lace overlay (blue corset)
My Good Sister called me this morning to pass on my Evil Sister's* account of her call with Mom yesterday. Mom was looking high and low for GS & me, wondering where we were. We're not supposed to fly in until Saturday, which we've been telling her for weeks. As I sat on the E line, we strategized. We need to find out:
  1. Who her primary care doc is. GS points out she should have prescription bottles lying around.
  2. Whether she's still seeing a cardiologist, and if so, who. Remember, the last time she got this addled she needed stents put in her heart.
  3. Who her lawyer is. Springing power of attorney for GS seems to get more urgently necessary by the day.
  4. Mom claims she took (springing?) medical power of attorney from ES and gave it to me. I have no paperwork, only a vague memory of Mom's word; I don't specifically remember the words "power of attorney", which would have been a big deal. GS wants to root through Mom's safe deposit box for it.

I got back to my happy place by doing birthday stuff: I've just placed what I expect to be the largest sushi order I'll ever make, both by quantity and price.



*It's starting to seem unfair to call ES the Evil Sister, but she still hasn't made any amends for treating me like shit. Ex reminded me the other day of the bizarre accusations that ES made against her.
That's right: according to ES, Ex made me trans. My sisters never had a clue how their clothes mysteriously ended up damaged when they were in high school.
sistawendy: me in a Gorey vamp costume with the back of my hand to my forehead (hand staple forehead)
Yellow Jacket says she's not feeling the chemistry. To tell you the truth, I was kind of holding out the hope of chemistry more than actually feeling it myself. She did suggest going to a Hot Flash or something together, which would be awesome because I can never seem to scare up anyone to go with.

I shall console myself with doing birthday stuff. This month will be unusually packed with extracurricular activities, of which my Round-Numbered Birthday is only one.
sistawendy: me at a house party cradling a taco like a baby (taco madonna)
  1. My birthday outfit is now entirely in my possession. I will not be partly naked, at least not to start with, at my party. Not that I'm not OK with that, but it really isn't that kind of party and besides, it's in January.
  2. I've arranged a dinner date with Yellow Jacket this weekend. Unfortunately, the timing means I'll have some bristles under my chin; if I shave before electrolysis, Ms. Zappy can't get the hairs. I find myself wondering if I should wear a scarf that might hide such things. Once upon a time I wouldn't even have considered a date on a zappy weekend.
  3. The nice thing about the darkest days of winter is that I often sleep really well.
sistawendy: me in my nurse costume looking weirded out (weirded out)
I've paid for all the things I can pay for, for now.
I spent the morning fetching party-related things from up the hill, and the afternoon accepting packages. (I had today off.)
I've made a spreadsheet tab out of the sushi order I'm going to place in a couple of weeks.

Yes, it's madness, but it's the happy kind. Like Burning Man, throwing big parties is for people with a logistics fetish.

ETA: Moar baking supplies obtained.
sistawendy: me in C18-inspired makeup looking amused (amused eighteenthcent)
Dinner at Capitol Cider - gluten free - and ice cream, and Christmas shopping at Elliott Bay with [profile] rigel_p. I got to tell her all about Folsom and dating and birthday, oh my! In between coughs, which Everyday Music seemed to weirdly exacerbate.

Where things got a little strange was when we decided it was time to go home, around 2215. We could hear, but not see, a man being loudly mentally ill or otherwise unpleasant, on or more likely right next to a 49 on Broadway. The 49 didn't move and kept its flashers on. No fewer than four police cars zoomed up as [profile] rigel_p and I discussed transportation options. The yelling stopped somewhere in there.

She quietly expressed a strong desire to GTFO of there fast, even though the bus was at the other end of the block from us and across the street. Luckily, we were kitty corner from Capitol Hill station, and downtown is the best place to catch a bus or car share anyway. And she'd never noticed the Jet Kiss art installation, which I love.

Why so nervous? I don't know. She's got significantly less to fear from cops in general than I do, and I wasn't worried. It's worth noting, though, that her birth father was abusive.

We got to my usual bus stop across from work, and she didn't want me waiting alone in the cold and drizzle. She proposed that I drive her to her hotel up north - which, as I said, I would have been thrilled to do (Shaddup) had my son not had my car. So she hopped in an Uber (grr) after extracting a promise from me to text when I got home. I did.

Folks, I've taken the bus home at all kinds of ungodly hours. 2300 last night was fine as usual, human-wise, if a little chilly & damp.

In summation, [profile] rigel_p continues to be amazing. And full of surprises. And really pretty.
Burning birthday party questions:
  1. How much sushi per person?
  2. How do I count someone who doesn't respond to the invitation in any way? Showing up after failing to RSVP when asked is pretty tacky, but people do it.
sistawendy: me in a green velvet dress in front of a brick wall, laughing and looking up as I think, "WTF?" (wtf laughing)
I've done everything on my birthday party prep list that's doable until next year. Madness may ensue. Luckily, I have three dates more or less scheduled between now and then, two with the Tickler (Xmas day, New Year's) and one with Yellow Jacket.

Meanwhile, there are more goings on with Mom. She got lost on the way to her new* dentist, blaming the people that gave her directions. Good Sister points out that Mom used to laugh at people who couldn't find their way around a numbered street grid like the one in the town where she's lived for the last 48 years. The dentist said they couldn't do a certain procedure on her because of a medication she was taking, and she gave me a confused account of what that medication was for. More scary possibilities:
  • Mom postponed talking to me on Sunday. She may be avoiding talking to me when she knows she's addled.
  • GS reminded me that the last time she ran into real cognitive trouble, she needed two stents put in her heart. Neither one of us knows if Mom is still seeing her cardiologist.




*These days Mom changes medical & dental professionals more often than old-school programmers change socks. She's that ornery now.
sistawendy: me in my nurse costume looking weirded out (weirded out)
Lovely pah-tays with the extended Goth and MOOer clans yesterday. Believe it or not, I think I socialized what felt like enough, and got home by midnight. Yeah, I started early.

This afternoon, I started making decorations and getting my lighting ready for my birthday party. It threatens to take over my apartment, even when it's all assembled. The good news is that a) it's paid for and b) my son should be able to open the futon couch tomorrow night to go to sleep without any obstructions.

Yeah, still psyched. The world is not allowed to end before I turn 50. I declare myself Imperatrix Diei Nativitatis, and I forbid it.

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