sistawendy: me looking confident in a black '50s retro dress (mad woman)
Welp, it’s done. I’ve had facial feminization surgery, and now I’m busy with recovery: sleeping a whole lot, walking some, drinking my meals, and popping pills on schedule. My head looks like it belongs on a mummy who lost a fight. I haven’t been at my sharpest, of course, but I can remember a few things.

For starters my ride to and from surgery was a Rolls Royce. Believe it or not, that’s a medically sound choice because there is no smoother ride. At my request, the team put “I Wanna Be Sedated” by the Ramones on the OR sound system shortly before knocking me out. The Sculptor wore a sharp dark suit.

I came to about 5 hours later in a recovery room, and I spent the night going on assisted walks every two hours and drinking water and juice. The no-narcotics pain management worked fine, and continued to work after discharge the next day.

And speaking of those pills etc., the bag I picked them up in was the size of a burger order for a whole family. Dancer was invaluable for keeping me on schedule, escorting me to the hotel gym for walkies.

I’m supposed to sleep with my trunk elevated 45 degrees with no neck flexion. That’s fine in the surgery center with their fancy beds and 2-hour sleep stages. But neither Dancer nor I could really make that work in a hotel room all night: my back complained. I’ve been sleeping about half as elevated as I should, but at least I’ve been sleeping.

The first post-operative poop late this morning was epic. How fortunate that Dancer had just left.

I’m still a little light-headed, and I’ve gotten my meds off schedule a couple of times, but the swelling is gone from my hands and I’m on track to walk for two hours today. Go me.

Date: 2026-05-03 01:14 am (UTC)From: [personal profile] sholanda
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Glad you’re on the other side and sending best wishes for a speedy recovery

Date: 2026-05-03 01:50 am (UTC)From: [personal profile] maribou
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Thank you for updating, glad it's going ok so far and I wish you gentle and speedy healing.

Date: 2026-05-03 02:04 am (UTC)From: [personal profile] garpu
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Fingers crossed for a speedy recovery! How long are you in the Bay area for?

Date: 2026-05-03 07:44 am (UTC)From: [personal profile] staxxy
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Hurrah!!

Date: 2026-05-03 07:48 am (UTC)From: [personal profile] solarbird
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yay done! congratulations and good luck on the recovery time ^_^

Date: 2026-05-03 08:40 am (UTC)From: [personal profile] bittergourd
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This is absolutely wonderful news. I didn't realize that you just got done having the surgery When you mentioned it to me earlier today. Hoping for fast healing. I would set an alarm for all the meds so you're on schedule. <3

Date: 2026-05-03 03:00 pm (UTC)From: [personal profile] parityanimal
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So glad to hear from you! I was getting worried that you hadn't posted. Hoping for a speedy recovery and anticipating that first glamour shot!

Date: 2026-05-03 04:08 pm (UTC)From: [personal profile] trilliumgrl
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Yay! I'm glad it's going well.

Date: 2026-05-03 08:16 pm (UTC)From: [personal profile] cupcake_goth
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I’m very glad things are going well.

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