compiled dating advice

Dating advice to yours truly over time:

1. If you're kinky, go where the kinksters are, namely anytime at the CSPC.
2. If you're queer, go where the queers are, e.g. Seattle Storm games or meetup.com.
3. If you're queer and kinky, go where the queer-and-kinky people are, e.g. BSQ or the women's events.
4. If you're queer, don't date people who aren't out.

How out is out enough, though? Out to everyone? Out to parents, as Dan Savage once wrote?

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Oh: the ephemere martini at Dilettante is the shiznit.

Meta: bulk tag replacement

I just changed the "glbt" tag on all of my entries that have it to "queer". Every time I looked at the old tag it reminded me of the contention over which letter comes first.

Which reminds me: this isn't the first time I've wanted to change a tag on a whole bunch of entries - I've misspelled some in the past. Does anyone out there on the lazyweb know a good way to do bulk tag edits?