sistawendy: a butterfly in the style of a street sign (butterfly)
1 day until I leave.
3 days until the Grand Snip.
0 business days. I managed to get my loose ends tied up at work.

Today at 9:00 PM marks one year of Full Time for me, making me eligible for surgery under the long-established standards of care. (These days they're the WPATH standards, if I remember correctly.) I made it.

This past year has been so amazing for me - in large part thanks to the people reading this - that I'm a little worried I'll never come close to it again. Full Time, the Bang, Pride, and Burning Man and their aftermaths were the icing on what's been a magnificent cake.

After the Grand Snip, will I calm down and be a normal woman? Hell no, not if I can help it. I love my life now. I say that without any reservations or exceptions, and you wouldn't have heard me say that at all in the bad old days.

What's next? I've got three things on my agenda.
  1. Get back into the exercise groove.
  2. Work on my career.
  3. Do more creative stuff.

Belly dance would fit two of those. The usual constraints of time & money apply.

Date: 2011-12-10 05:46 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] cajunsblues.livejournal.com
I am very happy for you

Date: 2011-12-10 06:06 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] hestiaschild.livejournal.com
SQUEE!! (Doesn't even begin to cover it, but it's the best I got.)

Date: 2011-12-10 06:55 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] sistawendy.livejournal.com
Hey, it's plenty good enough.

Normality is highly overrated.

Date: 2011-12-10 06:55 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] parityanimal.livejournal.com
Heavens, why would anyone want to be NORMAL anyway? it's so...boring.

Date: 2011-12-10 07:07 pm (UTC)From: [personal profile] solarbird
solarbird: (zoe)
Awesome. Have a good flight, and good luck.

Date: 2011-12-10 07:50 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] dianala.livejournal.com
I hope it goes as easily for you as any surgery can go and with a speedy recovery.

Date: 2011-12-10 08:14 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] mahariel.livejournal.com

Date: 2011-12-10 10:42 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] arjache.livejournal.com
Break a leg!


...no, wait, that's probably not the right medically-phrased idiom. But best wishes anyway.

Date: 2011-12-11 12:00 am (UTC)From: [personal profile] maellenkleth
maellenkleth: (raven)
Good fortune to you, and remember to pack some maxipads. Welcome to the world. ^_^

Date: 2011-12-11 12:30 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] sistawendy.livejournal.com
My maxipads are already packed.

Date: 2011-12-11 02:43 am (UTC)From: [personal profile] maellenkleth
maellenkleth: (Default)
Good, because the 'bright notion' of simply going with tampons eventually occurs to many people, and that's absolutely a bad, bad, bad idea, as Dr McSnip has (one hopes) already explained to you. Further comments backchannel if need be. G'luck, eh?

Date: 2011-12-11 12:43 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] evillinn.livejournal.com
I'm so excited and happy for you. And I'm grateful for how open you've been about your experiences - I've learned a lot from you.

I can't imagine you'll ever "calm down and be a normal woman". The things going on in your life this past year have been exciting and big, but you are, fundamentally, a dynamic, interesting and fully engaged woman.

If I miss my chance later, my hopes for a smooth and gentle few weeks coming up. You have an army of people here cheering the whole time!

Date: 2011-12-11 01:47 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] fizzgig-bites.livejournal.com
Have a safe trip and I hope all goes according to plan. I can't imagine what you are going through. Please try to keep us updated. I will be thinking of you.

Date: 2011-12-11 04:48 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] that6tall2girl.livejournal.com
I can't handle my excitement for you. All my love for an easy surgery, speedy healing, and I can't wait for your first Flowered post. <3

Date: 2011-12-11 05:20 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] javagoth.livejournal.com
I'm so happy for you! I hope all goes really well!!!

Date: 2011-12-11 03:40 pm (UTC)From: [personal profile] maribou
maribou: (Default)
Thinking of you. Wishes for safe easy travels on both sides, and a speedy recovery, are among my thoughts. *hugs*

Date: 2011-12-12 05:55 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] savannarama.livejournal.com
Aieeeeeeeeeee. :D

Bellydancing is awesome and I recommend it highly. Seagoths will know of drop-in bellydancing on the Hill that might be reasonable. The Seattle Public Library has a number of DVDs also, btw. Search by "belly" and narrow by format (DVD) and you can put them on hold online to your nearest branch. It helps to have mirrors in your living room. :)

Date: 2011-12-12 07:03 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] la-roja.livejournal.com
Godspeed.

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