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A few minutes ago my son told me he misses me, the way I used to say goodbye to him before he left for school and the silly songs I used to sing. I'm trying hard not to cry in front of him as I type; it bothers him.
He also says he doesn't want a stepfather. As flattering as that may be to me, it's bad news for Nibs. He's having a hard time explaining why.
And Nibs wants her brother to fly up twice a year for some male bonding. He's a great guy and I'm sure that would be good for m'boy, but he made it sounds as if Nibs thinks it's absolutely necessary. There are plenty of women who do just fine without that kind of help.
He also says he doesn't want a stepfather. As flattering as that may be to me, it's bad news for Nibs. He's having a hard time explaining why.
And Nibs wants her brother to fly up twice a year for some male bonding. He's a great guy and I'm sure that would be good for m'boy, but he made it sounds as if Nibs thinks it's absolutely necessary. There are plenty of women who do just fine without that kind of help.
