sistawendy: me in my nun costume looking stern (stern nun)
Staying off Twitter & FB helped with the sleep, but last night's problem? Too warm. I shouldn't be able to see clouds of flies in November in Seattle, people. Goddamn global warming.

Talked to Good Sister on the bus this morning as I do about every other week. Quote from her: "Why? Why? Why? Why? Why?" She & Mom are in agreement that no member of my immediate family did the wrong thing, and neither did any of our current or former spouses. I take comfort in that.

Thanksgiving peeps: I have ordered a 6-10 lb. turkey. It's on like TRON, and you're in like Flynn.

I'm back.

Nov. 10th, 2016 08:46 pm
sistawendy: me looking stern in a blue velvet 1890s walking suit (lizzy)
I cancelled the meeting I'd set up to see a potential venue for my 50th birthday party. I may need a wad of cash squirreled away. If I don't, there are many organizations that need it now, not to mention people close to me who will need it in the near future: Ex depends on the Affordable Care Act for arthritis medication that she needs to stay ambulatory.

I didn't go to the protest in Seattle last night - dinner for m'boy, exhaustion - but I'm glad it happened and I admire the people who went.

I was born in New York state, which allows people to change the gender marker and name on their birth certificates. It's a much bigger pain than any single document that I had changed when I first started Full Time, but I'm wondering if it might be worth it. To be clear, my driver's license, passport, and Social Security card are all changed.

Got Signal on my phone, disabled touch unlock.

Thanksgiving is, of course, still on for them what wants it. And there's no way in hell I'm not doing Folsom & Dark Garden, even if they put me on the no-fly list.
sistawendy: me in my nun costume with my duster cross, looking hopeful (hopeful nun)
November is upon us, and in the "U"S of A that means Thanksgiving isn't far away. Ever since I moved back to Seattle, I've greatly enjoyed the annual ritual of Goth orphans' Thanksgiving. The trouble is, all of the usual hosts & hostesses have had Lots Of Stuff Going On lately, so their silence is completely understandable.

In the grand Burner tradition, though, I'm going to attempt to make something happen. The trouble is, I don't have a whole lot of resources for this: a one-bedroom apartment, my vintage 1950s electric oven & four-element range in my galley kitchen, and seating at, you know, tables for eight*. I'm pretty sure my son won't be in attendance because a) his mother, who takes justifiable pride in her cooking, would consider it a personal affront, and b) the teenage eye rolling at Goth preoccupations would be distractingly audible.

Good: Two supermarkets and Phinney Ridge within walking distance, possible parking, mass transit access, and a hostess who's thrilled to finally have people over and who will make you eat your vegetables.
Bad: LIMITLESS COSMIC POWER in an itty, bitty living space.

Who's with me?



*Eight if I hit IKEA again. Five if I don't.
sistawendy: me at a house party cradling a taco like a baby (taco madonna)
Remember the tall, athletic lady from Friday night? We can has date.

I have pwned this Thanksgiving weekend. I have kicked its turkey ass. You wish you were me.
sistawendy: Lego me in a red dress holding a beer tankard (celebration plastic)
For the first time since maybe before I was married I made cornbread stuffing, this time for the Goth Orphans' Thanksgiving at chez [livejournal.com profile] theda. Two other people brought stuffing, so mine was forgotten. Ah well, I don't have any other food in my apartment at the moment anyway, and it turned out well if I say so myself. Next year? Salad or a veggie side dish.

Hanging out with my Peeps in Black reminds me pointedly of what a pop culture Philistine I am. I mean, I've hardly even watched any Buffy. For the most part I don't regret it: watching the tube makes me feel dirty, as if I should have been doing something else with that time. I blame (?) my father, who believed that to such a degree that between the ages of about three and eight, my family had no TV in the house. But now, an awful lot of the time I have no idea what people around me are talking about.

This is not to say, however, that I didn't enjoy hanging out with my PiBs hugely. I did, so much so that I closed the joint. And only at Goth Thanksgiving am I dressed up to the median.

I still want to rub [livejournal.com profile] stroppy_baggage's head.
sistawendy: me in my nurse costume looking weirded out (weirded out)
Email from Mom today, in its entirety:

There is a tornado watch here. Got to go.

Granted, that was taken out of context; it was the last of a long tech support exchange - Mom has reason to believe she's been unintentionally using her neighbors' wireless network. (My mom the wardriver?!) But still, how many people get emailed about a tornado watch nearly three thousand miles away?

Ah, the stuff of my childhood nightmares. I'll take earthquakes any day.
I'm making cornbread stuffing for Thanksgiving dinner at (ahem) a certain gathering. Aspiring eX is making some for her own gathering. I have no iron skillet. She offered to make the cornbread for me, and I accepted. Can I get an "Awww"? Well, I thought it was very sweet of her.
The Siberian Siren invited me to blues dancing on the Hill tonight. Oddly enough, I'm not feeling hugely enthusiastic. Luckily, it's a regular thing.
sistawendy: a cartoon of me in club clothes (dolly)
For many years I would hear of the annual Goth orphans' potluck, and a few days later I'd sigh as I listened my in-laws drone on over yet another dinner at the Abbey. Well, this year I made it to the Goths - Nibs decided to do her big feast on Friday - and it did not disappoint! Many peeps whom I hadn't seen in too long. Favorite edible? [livejournal.com profile] m_cobweb's cornbread stuffing. Southern food FTW.

Last night at the Abbey was perfectly tasty and blissfully free of in-laws. It was marred for me, though, by family friend H being prudish about Burning Man stories. This sort of thing never happens with chosen family.

This morning I went to Bartell's and munched down the list of things my surgeon said to buy before surgery. Gory details here. )
sistawendy: a cartoon of me in club clothes (dolly)
Yay: Thanksgiving dinner small enough (five people, no elders) not to kill me with the prep & cleanup.
Yay: The eats, especially Nibs' apple tatin, and H's tabouleh made at the Abbey.
Yay: Pumpkins, mint, and parsley grown at the Abbey.
Yay: Sun today.
Yay: EMP with boy.
Yay: Seeing grad school chums for the first time in two years and not being ashamed of where I work.
Yay: Boy behaving himself pretty well in a place where, as I feared, there wasn't much to keep him entertained.
Yay: Magnuson Park with boy, and showing him hangar 30 and the submarine fins.

Hunh. What do you know? Nothing to complain about.
Tomorrow night's plans: Church of Bass for a reunion of old-schoolers, and the Mercury to wish a certain spooky, domestic Burner a happy birthday (observed).
sistawendy: a cartoon of me saying "Praise Bob!" (prabob)
A couple of new (to me) recipes selected & prepared by Nibs, of course, kicked a lot of butt:
  1. meringued pecans - Cracklike. I suspect that this would be a prime PMS food.
  2. apple & quince tart
I almost took for granted the celery root slaw, roasted sunchokes, mashed spuds with shallots, and cranberry sauce with o.j. & sherry.
sistawendy: me in my nun costume with my duster cross, looking hopeful (hopeful nun)
  1. When the weather turns foul, I have a treadmill, an iPod, and a fan for a pre-feast workout.
  2. Nibs cooks way better than I do.
  3. Unlike the US State Department, the Abbey has a no-China policy this year.
  4. My water heater holds exactly enough to do post-Thanksgiving dishes.
  5. Nibscousins have kids not much older than my son to keep him from bouncing off the walls.
  6. I haven't succeeded in my grand quest just yet, but doing so isn't as urgent as it could be.


Nibs proposed that I go out tonight instead of tomorrow night because I'll be taking the Sanctimobile in to see the doctor on Saturday morning. Surely she jests. The current nun plan is to catch Jacob London at the War Room with a chance of a Usual Haunt prior to that.

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