Nada de nada es nada.

[sistawendy]

I'm pretty sure most of you knew that even before I dropped the bombshell on Nibs last year, I got precious little physical affection from Nibs because of her autoimmune troubles. As you can imagine, even that low level fell off rather precipitously after the bombshell. I held out hope that maybe things would return to the previous, pathetic value of normal, but Nibs put the kibosh on that yesterday. She wasn't nasty about it or anything, but she insists she's not a lesbian. I'm disappointed, but not hugely, and neither can I say I'm too surprised.

Comments

[sistawendy.livejournal.com]

Well, I know I'm the same person, but remember: I promised her more than once that there would be no bombshell. It's not unreasonable for her to believe that I'm not the same person she thought she married.

[beaq.livejournal.com]

Yah, not dissing her. Feelings aren't fair or unfair. It's just not FAAAAAIIIIIIR. If you know what I mean. (I'm sure my own response would be similar to how you describe yours, though.)

[sistawendy.livejournal.com]

I know exactly what you mean, to the last decimal place.