Nada de nada es nada.

[sistawendy]

I'm pretty sure most of you knew that even before I dropped the bombshell on Nibs last year, I got precious little physical affection from Nibs because of her autoimmune troubles. As you can imagine, even that low level fell off rather precipitously after the bombshell. I held out hope that maybe things would return to the previous, pathetic value of normal, but Nibs put the kibosh on that yesterday. She wasn't nasty about it or anything, but she insists she's not a lesbian. I'm disappointed, but not hugely, and neither can I say I'm too surprised.

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[generalchaos.livejournal.com]

aw hon. *hugs* While she might say she's not a lesbian, I don't think one *has* to be a lesbian, or straight, or bi, to love whomever one loves. Some things transcend what's in or not in someone's undies... You're still the same person, after all. You've just grown a bit.
Ack. Would she love you any less if you dyed your hair blue, for instance? It's not your personality, or heart, that's changing, it's just your body.
*rant rant rant rant rant*

hang in there...