sistawendy: me at a house party cradling a taco like a baby (taco madonna)
For the record, I filed electronically on Feb. 2nd. On Feb. 16th, Uncle Sam told me everything looked hunky dory and that they'd send the refund. It showed up in my account this morning. This part of living in the future isn't bad.

Have I spent it yet? No. Am I going to spend it on something exciting? Also no. I have at least one boring item of business to take care of.

Oh yeah: Good Sister congratulated me.
sistawendy: me looking confident in a black '50s retro dress (mad woman)
Says the IRS, my refund is approved and should be in my hot little hands next week. I have already bragged to my CPA sister, i.e. Good Sister.

The only significant complication this year was getting the last of Mom's Social Security money. What you do in that case is just act like a normal Social Security recipient and go through their little worksheet, which because of my other income said that 85% of what I got was taxable.

Oh: KEXP sent me a tax form for my donation to them several days after I filed, so I could have deducted that. I guess donation statements aren't subject to the same proptness requirements as 1099s & W2s. C'est la vie. Enjoy your ~$30 windfall, Uncle Sam.

What to do with the refund? It'll be slightly larger than the balance of my sewer hookup charge – a downside of new construction. I can save $1K by paying it off ASAP, but given the state of the world, maybe I should just save it.
sistawendy: me in my nurse costume looking weirded out (weirded out)
Over dinner* last night, my son and I started talking about taxes. He said something about the tax implications of moving in with me.
I stared at him, and told him that since he's a renter, there are no tax implications. "Don't you know the difference between renting and owning?"
"Yeah, but..."
"You don't own the place unless your name is on the title."

Characteristically, he told me to just forget it. But I didn't, natch. This is just another example of the bizarre ideas that just... appear inside his head from no source that I can identify. I can only speculate that I'd told him about the mortgage interest tax deduction, and he somehow thought that would magically apply to him.

I texted Ex. She, too, thinks it's odd, but she's not as concerned. I'm sitting here wondering what other... happy horseshit? Baubles of bullshit? Have materialized in his head. As if autism, ADHD, and anxiety weren't bad enough, the Wendling occasionally sees reality through something that makes it much prettier than it is. Maybe it's the flip side of anxiety, the voice that told him to drive down a steep hill on an unplowed side street to buy a magazine.

What do I do?



*Welsh rarebit, salad, and blueberries.
sistawendy: me at a house party cradling a taco like a baby (taco madonna)
I got my tax refund a week ago! And I didn't even file electronically! Good Sister the CPA said what I suspected: a Democratic Congress and president meant that the Internal Revenue Service didn't get starved for funds again, so they caught up. That suits me just fine.

Another thing that suits me just fine is that I wrote a Python script to deal with the complexities of both alimony and the mortgage interest deduction. The IRS must have liked the results just fine if they sent me a refund so quickly. And I've written the script in such a way that I can basically use it as long as I have a mortgage. I have in essence slain the dragon hydra that is the US tax code.

Speaking of Good Sister, she's done her own taxes but now she needs to do Mom's. Bizarrely, she needs to treat Mom's real estate as a rental, albeit a non-profit rental, and state income & expenses for it. Yet another way in which, if karma had mass, Good Sister would have noticeable gravity.
sistawendy: me in a Gorey vamp costume looking up (skeptic coy Gorey tilted down)
I just mailed my taxes. The refund isn't as hefty as I'd like – the mid four figures, as opposed to the low five figures of the days of a full year of alimony – but it's better than nothing.

In that filing I included what I hope is my last ever IRS Form 1040 Schedule 1, which is where you say how much alimony you paid, and to whom. It also includes my first of many Schedule A, which is where you report the mortgage interest deduction. The mortgage interest deduction does handily beat the standard deduction. Computing the mortgage interest deduction is a little bit bananas partly because of Trump, but c'est l'argent.
sistawendy: me in profile in a Renaissance dress at a party (contemplative red)
First the good (for me) news: I've paid so much in mortgage interest and points that even with the Trumpy fuckery, the itemized deductions on my federal income tax should be about double the standard one, which means another refund in the low five figures. That's right: I get about a quarter of my mortgage payments back. Yay federal home-buying subsidy? It would be better for the country if that money went to the government instead of a lender, but I'm still going to grab that cash with both hands because that's the only way I can stay in this place.

This is contrary to what the Tickler said about their taxes, but they borrowed less than I did for sure. I'll have to ask them for details.

And as for this place, despite the techie poshness of the neighborhood, it's crawling with thieves: FM Bike got stolen, including the U-lock, cable, basket, and the stainless steel fitting for the basket that [personal profile] gfish made for me.

I was locking my bike under my front stairs to the railing on the steps down to the apartment, but I no longer believe that outdoor bike storage is a viable option. My foyer may be tiny, but it's about to have a stout hook in the ceiling with a bike hanging from it.

Goddamn thieves. I'm resisting the temptation to say something ugly about substance abusers.

Edited to add: Time to ask East Neighbors if their security camera got the guy. And file a police report. And maybe a homeowner's insurance claim?
sistawendy: me in my nurse costume looking weirded out (weirded out)
Monday night, I applied for a nearly $1M mortgage. It's about average for where I live. I feel like I should be freaking out about this more than I am. I guess I don't have reason to freak until I sign on the dotted line.

Tonight I'm going to file a tax return for what I hope is my last ever refund in the lowest five figures. Well, at least I hope it's my last outsize tax refund that's the result of paying a bunch of alimony. Making zero-nominal-interest loans to the government isn't something I'm really into for any reason.
sistawendy: me at a house party cradling a taco like a baby (taco madonna)
In the last forty-eight hours I have
  1. gotten my tax refund! It's now banked for either
    1. another maternal emergency, which I don't anticipate,
    2. buying a house, or
    3. Dr. Faceknife.
  2. bought a ticket to next month's Torture Garden.
  3. ordered cash £££ from my bank. Yeah, I could have done it there, but I'd rather have it ready. Also, credit card interest rates. Boy howdy, the pound sterling has taken a beating since Brexit.
  4. ordered bike tubes, which I turned out not to need immediately. The leak I thought I had... went away?
  5. been to see my new doctor, henceforth to be known as Dr. Funnyname. He seems like a level-headed and forthright guy. He used words that trans people dread: "You'll have to educate me" about hormones. He did, however, say he knows other doctors who have trans patients and he'd talk to them. Hey, at least he's honest and not a transphobe. The non-physicians who work in that practice give off a gay vibe, and he was recommended by Capitol Hill Medical, which is super out and proud.
sistawendy: me in a Gorey vamp costume with the back of my hand to my forehead (hand staple forehead)
I called the IRS over lunch to ask them where the hell my $11K is. While I was on hold for ten or fifteen minutes – not bad, considering – one of the automated messages told me that there's a site for checking the status of amended returns, i.e. the 1040X that I filed back in March.

Cell phone in one hand an typing Dvorak with the other, I logged in. Sure enough, they got my 1040X on March 2. Processing time: sixteen (16) weeks.

And then a human came on and told me pretty much the exact same thing. Le sigh. So, I probably will get my dough, but not until the end of next month. That's too late for the transaction, if the courts allow it, for Mom's house, but luckily Good Sister says we don't need it. I guess I can save it for a (real) vacation later this year and the (re-)start of a down payment fund.
sistawendy: me in a Gorey vamp costume looking up (skeptic coy Gorey tilted down)
Good Sister texted the other two of us to tell us that Mom's long-term care insurance finally approved our claim. An hour or two later, GS texted us to say that it's only for two hours of in-home nursing care a day. Mom's needs are far greater than that, and have been for a few months now.

I called the IRS today to ask them what was up with my amended tax return. Sheeut, they wouldn't even take my call; the robot blew me off after I spent ten minutes working through their phone maze. So I paid the not quite $660 that they say I owe because I really don't want to be in trouble with the taxman. At least it's settled for now. Pestering Uncle Sam will have to wait until next week at the earliest. I'm just glad that the United Sister Front hasn't needed the refund I'm owed just yet.

And in pandemic news, I've noticed in the last couple of weeks on my morning bike rides that the volume of traffic and the frequency of mask wearing among those exercising are both approaching pre-pandemic levels.

The City of Seattle is about a quarter of the way through painting stripes on the streets around Green Lake. They'll probably be done this time next week. As long as I've lived in Seattle, transportation improvements have tended to be completed around the time I stop needing them*. I guess that means they're going to allow bikes again on the Green Lake inner trail soon. By that logic, the opening of the new light rail stations in September means I either won't be working downtown anymore or I won't be living in my current neighborhood. I really like the neighborhood I live in.



*The 90th street bridge in Redmond? Opened on the last day of a job I had nearby, when it would have been really handy. The SR 520 floating bridge? Opened after years of construction and tools just a few months after I moved back to Seattle.
sistawendy: me in a Gorey vamp costume with the back of my hand to my forehead (hand staple forehead)
I think I have a possible explanation for why the IRS thinks I owe them. I did indeed file Schedule 1, the form that says how much alimony I paid. I even made a copy of it and filed it like a good, paranoid girl.

My copy is missing my [ETA: name and] Social Security number. In the likely event that it was separated from the rest of my return, they'd never know who to attribute it to.

Dammit! So what do I do about this? Please don't make me file another 1040X.
sistawendy: a cartoon of me looking angry (angry cartoon)
I just checked the status of my tax refund because it's supposed to be almost $11K. The web site is telling me that I'm not going to get a refund and instead owe $659.

Bullshit.

The alimony rules haven't changed since last year: it's still deductible as long as your divorce agreement was signed before 2018. Mine was signed on Dec. 30, 2015. Suing the federal government wasn't on my bingo card for 2021, but if they fuck this up I'm definitely game.
sistawendy: me in my nun costume with my duster cross, looking hopeful (hopeful nun)
  1. Ex is getting her first vaccine dose on Wednesday, and the second on March 24th. Remember, her immune system is suppressed by the fancy drugs she takes for rheumatoid arthritis. I was just reading the other day that immune-suppressed people are breeding grounds for new mutant strains of COVID-19, so this is an even bigger deal than it sounds.
  2. The IRS has acknowledged receipt of my tax return.
sistawendy: me in profile in a Renaissance dress at a party (contemplative red)
Good thing that came in the mail yesterday: that last 1099 I was expecting. So you know what I did last night after dinner: my taxes. Alimony refund, come to mama. Note that I still haven't set up electronic filing, so my guess is that it'll be about six weeks before it arrives. I notified Good Sister. She reiterated that we're unlikely to need it for Mom any time soon.

Good thing that didn't come in the mail yesterday: socks from REI, despite USPS tracking saying it had been delivered. How likely is it that my socks got swiped during a 45-minute window just before noon in the pouring rain? And those socks would probably fit in my mailbox. As I mentioned above, I got mail in my mailbox yesterday.
sistawendy: me in a Gorey vamp costume looking up (skeptic coy Gorey tilted down)
The good news: I got my tax refund, just barely within the three weeks that the IRS says it usually arrives after they get your return. Now my challenge is to not use my debit card so frequently that it gets locked; that happened last year.

The bad news: Ex wants to hire a lawyer and get our son evaluated to see if we can get him on SSI. She says he can't work more than five hours at in a row without some time to unwind (read: jumpenflappen). She says other parents in our situation have made it happen, and that he's going to need it if he's ever going to move out of her house. She wants him gone pretty badly; he's with her five days a week and isn't the best housemate.

I have all of the feels about this.
  1. I don't think it's likely to succeed. I think the gummint is likely to conclude that he's just a whiny-assed scatterbrained punk an ordinary ADDer with a helicopter mom, and not eligible for benefits, no matter how many times we appeal.
  2. Even if we did succeed, it feels to me as if we'd be scammers.
  3. How does the Wendling feel about this? Ex told me she'd made him aware. I brought it up over dinner last night, and it seemed to be news to him. I tried to keep my tone neutral. He was against it, but not vociferously. He disputes what his mother says about not being able to work more than five hours in a row. That to me is surprising as sunrise.
But here's an argument in Ex's favor. The path to independence for him runs through school; there's just no two ways about that anymore, not in an expensive big city. I asked him something like, "What's your plan to keep what happened the last time you were in school from happening again?"

Silence. And a guilty look on his face.

"You need to come up with an answer to that question," I said. He pointed out that if he's a full-time student he'd have to work less. I'm so very OK with that. Ex, who graduated college in 1981, has outdated notions of working oneself through school. I need to disabuse her of this Boomer baloney.

So now that's potentially two lawyers who might get their hands on my tax refund: one for my mother and one for my son, both with brain problem situations.
sistawendy: a cartoon of me in club clothes (dolly)
Mexican with the hungry Tickler Saturday night at Hecho. I've finally tried a tongue taco and found it tasty. Then boot shopping downtown for her, followed by a house night with decent music - Evil Eddie Richads - but a disappointingly small crowd, even after midnight. The Tickler uncovered evidence that the promoters hadn't quite done their jobs. But at least I looked OK in my green scale pattern dress & Fluevog Teahs.

Since the Tickler had to come up from Olympia, the new bed came in handy. There was tasty brunch at Brunswick & Hunt in Ballard. The Yelp blurb lied about which neighborhood it's in, which is weird when you consider that there's a big concentration of dense housing in Ballard now.

Electrolysis yesterday afternoon. Ms. Zappy got everything in a comfortable 45 minutes, so we decided to book that instead of an hour next time. Yes, round trip drive time for electrolysis now exceeds the time I spend on the table each session, and I'm approaching the point where one-way drive time does. And sessions these days are every six weeks; at their peak in 2010 they were twice a month if I could swing it financially, six hours per.

Chinese dinner at Ho Ho Seafood with the Tickler. Not bad, and not bad for us. Then on to the Shuga Shaq all-POC burlesque show at the Theater Off Jackson. As burlesque shows go, it was pretty good. That's an important qualification, though, and the time change kicked my butt - and is still kicking it. I confess that I never thought I'd see pop locking at a burlesque show, but I did last night because Black women.

Oh: my tax refund has been approved. I should have it in my hot little hands by EOD Wednesday.
sistawendy: me looking stern in a blue velvet 1890s walking suit (lizzy)
I seem to be part of a small, select group: I've neither gained nor lost, that I can tell, from the Republican tax scam of 2018. I'm not the 1%, but I'm apparently just shy of the 10% in both assets and income. (I could have sworn it was higher the last time I looked; that may be because the tax scam favored unearned income.)

That's right: the Orange Horror and his flunkies have screwed roughly nine tenths of the country out of at least some cash. I wonder if that will get their attention; kids in cages where horrible things happen to them doesn't seem to have done so.
sistawendy: me at a house party cradling a taco like a baby (taco madonna)
I had a first date off of OKCupid. I must say, it was the best one I've had in a loooong time, probably since my first date with Funny Lady. What shall I call her here? I think I'll call her the Proprietress. She's awfully impressive, seeming careful and very much in charge of her own life even through mistakes that she's made, but very forthright and down to earth. And do we have things in common, boy howdy, from what we're looking for to what we're into. Yeah, there are details that I'm loath to put in a public entry, so you'll have to trust me on this: she's promising. She asked about next steps as she made a quick exit for other long-standing plans. I've got this little smirk going as I anticipate seeing her again.

Cute? Shyeah. She looks all active & wholesome. How does she dress? Hard femme. Yeah, you could say that about me too, but she's harder and not quite as femme.

And in other good news the IRS says they've gotten my tax return and are processing it. I know that they've received my payment for that extra little 1099. Come to mama!
sistawendy: me in a Gorey vamp costume looking up (skeptic coy Gorey tilted down)
I just mailed my 1040X amended tax return, paid for my mistake online, and filed a hardcopy receipt. (I was waiting to get paid myself.) I did all this at 0630 my time because now I can anticipate that refund. Let's see how much of it I can spend on Mom-related legal fees this year!
sistawendy: me in a Gorey vamp costume looking up (skeptic coy Gorey tilted down)
I spent much of this evening filling out my 1040X amended tax return. If you'll recall, my lust for my refund was such that I mailed my 1040 one day before I got an unexpected 1099. (Do I have anyone reading this who doesn't know US federal income tax forms?) The G-men aren't going to get me like they got Al Capone.

Seattle is supposed to get whomped with snow on Friday. This sounds like a good weekend not to have any dates scheduled, and as luck (?) would have it, I don't. And I'll be spending tomorrow evening stocking up on grub at PCC.

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